First separations are sometimes difficult for both parent and child. This adjustment period is vital for a successful experience at the Y, for both parents and the children.

There are some children who find it difficult adjusting to new groups and a new environment; they may be more comfortable beginning the program with shorter hours and gradually lengthening their stay over a two or three day period.

For the well being of the child who arrives anxious or upset, the staff will try to accept their behavior without pressuring them. They help the child deal with separation by encouraging the child to focus their attention on an area of interest.

Saying goodbye is an important part of the child’s adjustment. It is reassuring to the child to be told when the parents are leaving, rather then finding the parents have disappeared from the room. If your child is crying and we can’t calm them down we will come to get you after fifteen minutes.

Families should be greeted and acknowledged by the staff. It is reassuring to the child to hear the parents and staff exchange greetings and good-byes. In addition it ensures that the staff are aware that the child has entered the room and he/she is now responsible for the child.